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{July 22, 2018}   “My Life is Not Your”Porn.

Today’s Topic will surely raise some eyebrows because it is all about Ex-boyfriends and Males in general who insist that they have a God-given right to continue to demoralise their past girlfriends and shame them through distribution of what we now refer to as Revenge-Porn brought about from the disgraceful display of countless women trashed by Males of which is an insult to all good Men for it is men themselves who create the problem by what they do to form hate and distaste where they are the ones with the issues that need constant counselling and not the Victim we have since discovered that the moment Porn photos of a male have circulated they cry for a Lawyer what does that tell you?

Over these past months it has been difficult for me to decide on whether to add this piece to my story because I regard Relationships as very private and believe that they should only be shared by the two people involved but as you all know my life was made very Public just by the sheer fact that so many people involved themselves in such damaging and false Litigation without even consulting me so I must continue on my journey until my quest for justice and peace appears on a permanent level.

It is still relevant that anything I do even what I wear gets taken back to the Media but if they are so hell-bent on what I do then how come I don’t get paid as a celebrity or make appearances on television I cannot have any sort of personal new relationship or even friendship due to this story approaching nearly 3 decades because to have a partner he would have to be on the defence side at all times —-so with everyone who sits on their butt and doesn’t try to make any improvements other than what I do myself whilst forced to watch those affected along with their teenage sons and daughters it can only get further progressively worse as more years roll by nobody talks to me about whatever they’re on about they just dish out Verbal Abuse at any opportunity and make it clear that I have no right to do what I need to do.

–No more will I take as I see fit to defend myself/ it is a Basic Right to go shopping/have a haircut/buy a mobile phone and get to use it/go into a restaurant without the hassle of annoyance/seek medical attention if required/take my pet’s to a Vet/see a Dentist/receive my mail like everybody deserves to/be able to earn a living from selling product from a computer without one’s computer being attacked on a permanent scale weekly /I am at best not out there and haven’t been for years and yet I face this dilemma each week of my life not being able to face the perpetrators who join as one to do these things coming from a vast percentage of Victorians.

The contributors>Media and their contacts on all levels with many celebrities in question

It is so easy to pinpoint which media channel has done the most damage through various things I have put to the test and they follow I bet you all have beautiful homes that I would dearly like to take from under you for your part in spreading scandalous stories about myself over such a long time.

Ex-rejected boyfriends conveying mostly Fake stories and consorting with criminals.

Those with vendettas of hate where I applied discipline to their filthy habits at some stage throughout the contact or passing in my life I have been given a life sentence for nothing and have never been charged with an offence and yet the torment continues from the Network.

And the same Network of losers who have pursued me for such a long time working together with what I estimate more than half of Victoria motivating our Youth to dish out Abuse when they can need to look in their own backyards you’ve got more problems than I could ever account for in a lifetime with so many of your kids on drugs who are also thieving from others robbing innocent people and so many of you bought into mortgages that could never be affordable all because you wanted everything in front of you and now you have lost it with more and more becoming homeless/I make mention of this only because attempts and threats to my home had been jeopardized from time to time.

Too many of you seem concerned about what I am doing and not taking care of your own business.

“A huge majority of Abusers in my township of Sunbury work for Bunnings and live locally where over a 12 year period some have lied to me and countless times overcharged me when I enquired about product then having been put through inconvenience of having to go back to get my money where extras were also offered that don’t even relate to the product I had bought all purposely done and not one of them had the guts to explain their actions/ management for that store had previously put an apology in writing on behalf of their staff of which is unacceptable—-when all of you stop offending for No God-given reason then I can stop writing.

Ex-boyfriends are the problem they all chose me for my most glamorous appearance and sex-appeal but for me, I saw things very differently as after my first relationship reaching 5 years from the age of 16 (Michael)boyfriend (1) where I experienced domestic violence just through simple jealousy of interacting with the opposite sex of which set a benchmark for me to bear no children and to one-day write a book called— Stop Abuse to Women this bloke could never accept rejection I believe I was the reason for his first marriage break up and yet I was never in any way a part of their lives I had long gone.

This course predominantly led me to experience many male relationships with some younger than myself in my early 30’s I gave all these guys more than 20 years plus of my life mostly during my Driving School Teaching career— where my work cars and my pets always came first taking people’s lives into your hands and having to teach them to drive to standards where they would be safe is a huge responsibility even the night before a license test I would always be in bed early to gain adequate rest for that important next day.

None of the younger lads at those times were given keys to any of my then rented premisses Nor did they ever offer to Contribute to any Food/Rental or Amenities and because of this were Not asked to as I could see their lack of both manors and responsibilities they just came and went at their own disposal without any pressures, and yet when each one them learned that I was finishing the relationship/ out of their track records I ended up with 5 of whom had smashed/damaged and had even stolen 2 fully registered cars where I never pursued them along with the first boyfriend included and just got on with my life they were given much leeway due to their age silly me one of my biggest mistakes never mind about age these fellas knew that they were getting involved with an older Mature Woman there were No excuses they all had jobs I even helped the last boyfriend get a permanent job and if they saved any money it certainly didn’t come my way and yet I have learned that much of the Abuse dished out to me over such a long time was because I supposedly Abused them??

I hope that all of you can now read between the lines because the bad experiences with these guys will all be a contribution to my book if I decide to launch it they along with their behaviour ended up a complete disgrace because they all came from good family backgrounds where they should have shown total respect instead of the lack of being ungrateful as years went by I always hinted 2 things save as much as you can and find someone closer to your own age for when you want children I have lost millions and a Career that I spent many of my earlier years building and None of these blokes (can’t call them men) had shown any support through these torrid times where I have experienced nothing but Rejection and Abuse especially from these last 12 years in particular where I now permanently live in Sunbury Victoria 3429

The threats surrounding very normal circumstances in regards to myself have been only too real coming from the Network of people.

Here is a summary of male behaviour from the past that today doesn’t seem to have changed one bit—- in no particular order—-

Boyfriend (1)relationship 5 years–Michael H. Fractured nose/gun pointed to the back of my head from a moving vehicle/assault on an 8-year-old boy with a half slap come punch to the face/vehicle taken to assess its value never returned and sold for profit with my signature forged– still he sits in that same rotten car-yard today and has never been charged with anything/he is also responsible for the collaboration and distribution of Revenge-Porn along with a whole line of other perpetrators those pictures were circulating for almost 30 years with the Public believing they were yesterday until they realized my age now being in my 60’s an Intervention order was taken out on this fellow at 20 but I considered his age and did not go ahead with the charges(right there was my first big mistake in life above anything else)

(He is responsible for more than 40 + years of Sexual Harassment towards me all played out using Public social/circles /Assault on both a child & an Adult/Theft of a Motor Vehicle including theft of other stolen items.

Boyfriend(2)between 2-3  years–Adrian B. vehicle borrowed and smashed no contribution to repairs at least he cried feeling sorry with an apology given.

Boyfriend (3) 2-3 years— Guy C. asked to take over driving 10pm in the evening due to myself feeling tired I closed my eyes for a moment he ran off the road within 4 minutes near missing a head-on accident driver of other vehicle turning back to see if we were okay this was one of my driving school cars where I was then able to take control got rid of him not long after I always had a motto (if you can’t handle my car) then you can’t handle me true to its word— no apology ever made/ perhaps these fellas should have looked me up beforehand to help them with better Driver Training skills.

Boyfriend(4) 2-3 years—-Justin F.another driving school car borrowed came back damaged no apology no contribution to the damage/ after reading this anyone would get the impression that I owed these sons of bitches a favour before that happened this same person had all the paint for his car restoration fully paid for by me just because I am a nice person and had the knowledge where to get it I ended this relationship at the end of 1989 when I had realized how irresponsible he was and the trouble he had caused and still he followed me to the next address before the age of 21 his parents had divorced but between them had bought him a men’s hairdressing business with paperwork not secured he lost it then a GT Falcon he also lost to a career criminal car thief who then started to follow me after I went to the trouble of finding it only to see Police exchange other information in return where they laid no charges towards the car thief. Just devastating to me Justin had contacted me for Driving lessons but I never trained him as he could already drive and park a car my job was to give him tuition and check all his driving levels sadly on the day he was so infatuated with me he failed to release the handbrake during the entire test and had to be rebooked/I left him in 1989.

(His part in this mess is also the last 30 years of Sexual Harassment using Public Social circles with Litigation stories unprecedented)

Boyfriend(5) 8-9 years—-Michael F. one driving school car borrowed over the years came back damaged another driving school car borrowed never came back given to relative to learn driving skills on back roads and paddocks in effect stolen the same person involved in 2 accidents with work cars and damaged a near brand new vehicle parked in a Ringwood RSL car-park creating at least (I estimate) between $10 & $15 thousand dollars worth of damage purposely smashing into the side of it because he was dragged out of a Poker Machine venue I do not mean physically he left no details leaving me choked for any kind of conversation for hours he never paid 1c towards damage for anything those poor people I often think of just who they were—-at least 6 attempts made to leave this fellow including an Intervention order taken out I believe that the blame for all the Ex-boyfriends wrong doing was put on me and that these stories were reversed by the Network of people to make me look the bad one to my knowledge none of these so-called boyfriends knew one another during these times.

(Also responsible for Sexual Harassment/Verbal Abuse and Theft of a Motor Vehicle It’s hard to find the right words to describe a young fellow who had just about everything bought for him by his parents where they looked after and made a living out of fostering children Michael had moved out of home very early in his life to live with his grandmother.)

Some instances are missing it took a lot of gut’s to write these columns and is definitely embarrassing enough I, fortunately, have the ability to move on very quickly and just get on with life and never look back but I have been forced to relive so many past things due to absolutely scandalous stories Nobody else would put up with this Why am I having to? I am a very private person.

Would I have another boyfriend No/Would I have the trust in someone new No/would they ever get to drive any vehicle that I own Never/and yet all of you meaning public had the gall to send our Youth out there on our Roads to Abuse not only their cars but the most vulnerable of innocent people.

I am and always will be one of the finest Driving Instructors of my time and I feel very sad that I didn’t get to help so many more people in taking care of themselves with Driving ability skills I have participated in the build of Race Cars with far greater capacity engines than most general road users will ever experience don’t ever let it be me who has to take your keys off you for bad behaviour on our ROADS.

1987>                                     1980>                                    2014>

Simply Beautiful every boyfriend became annoyed because none of them was good enough to control me or my life(Because they were not in the same league as myself I was looking for much more in a male than what these fellows had) the other girl in the picture her  brother Justin & his father so I have just found out are responsible for at least 90% of the false Litigation that started against me 3 decades ago and has been continued by others on a weekly scale he has caused so much damage to not only my then career but my entire life over such a long period it is beyond me how anyone can believe they could get away with terrorizing another person and turn a community on its head and not be caught you think Justin F that you can’t be charged along with other disgruntled past boyfriends of whom you joined in with to continue your dirty work of Scandalous Abuse using Social circles and a Network of people to motivate the Public in doing the same and in doing so taking these stories back to Media to make them sound so believable you all think that to Abuse an individual for over 30 years is a joke that’s more than obvious.

1987>                                       1988>                                         1988> Listed as boyfriend 4.

Let’s see the other main offender, not the most intelligent little idiot and certainly very poor knowledge of women his first wife and now adult daughters didn’t want any contact with him after their split this guy pulled the same tactics as boyfriend 4 long after I had left him he sat behind the desk of a car-yard that he and his father ran for more than 40 years using this site to collaborate Abuse stories against myself involving the Public all the way through but there were no stories to tell that would in any way affect the Public so why did he do this? I never interfered with his life and yet he always knew where I was living no matter where it was he made it his business even though he had his own family, he and others are responsible for distribution of Revenge-Porn for decades using the same pictures motivated by Abuse stories he sat in that car yard telling the public I was mad in the hope that everything I turned my hand to would be a failure he also rides a Harley Davidson with plenty of mates that do the same.

Boyfriend (1) for starters I do not believe in marrying the first relationship because this is where experiences start in life and we are busy getting to know ourselves and what we want/ males mature later in life than women many of these fellows we meet for the first time are still very much boys and still incredibly immature and are certainly not responsible enough to take on anything serious like marriage or children thank heavens I did neither.

My blog has become my book because I have never been left alone to live my life the way I deserve to in spite of continuing to write since 2012 worst of all I have never been approached to answer any questions of why such long-term punishment and for what.

When the Network couldn’t pin me down and have me locked up for anything they then moved to interfere with Family members and their lives causing harm and damage unprecedented using the same tactics as they did to me constantly calling their mobile phones stalking their places of living and work for those who had jobs also interfering with their computers and stealing from them so many members of the Public just tagged on using these forms of Abuse in helping them it’s not human by a long way to target others who have not harmed you or interfere with your life in any way and yet they did they all thought they were entitled to do the same, this is why we are now seeing Abuse on a massive scale because it has escalated for way too long.

This picture is 1969 staggering, isn’t it? Michael H.these blokes need counselling big time like do they actually sleep? His mother when she was alive was heavily sedated on Valium because she was so afraid of what her only child was capable of they had lived in Australia for most of their lives having run from their own country of England, many of his friends are complete criminals of which he thinks are really nice blokes because he is part of their circles I wish I could print the words that describe men who trash Ex-partners for circumstances that are so normal in everyday life where they turn conversations into exaggerated problems to suit themselves designed to harm others I left these relationships because they were not suitable and did not match my expectations of what I was looking for in a male it should have stopped right where it finished but the number of people recruited by ADULTS to carry on the Abuse trail against me is staggering including a younger generation of kids who were paid in drugs for their participation hatred is such a cruel word in the eyes of people you don’t know.

Boyfriend (5)Michael F. it is more than obvious to me so many years later that my Generous Nature was a prime target for predators wanting to take advantage sometimes you overlook these things because you are happy within yourself just wanting to get on with life and in doing so experiencing things that are unpredictable in this relationship that was certainly the case once again the only son of 2 children I remember this guy saying I want to take care of you those words meant very little to me having understood from an early age that men anywhere from age 20 to 30 are very much still boys so I took it with a grain of salt and continued thinking to myself I’ve got nothing to lose unfortunately it turned out that I had plenty to lose he was hearing all this Litigation in the background from his friends and yet he would come to my home 4 days in every week and say nothing this went on for eight & a half years until I managed to get him out of my life finally in 2002.

Having proposed so many times one would not expect the type of damage that I experienced, however, I did know within myself it was over long before it ended as this person showed No responsibility in wanting to give to anything and didn’t show any strength in wanting to save money for either himself or any other purpose by this time I had become very emotional because there was so much Litigation where people were saying anything they wanted to wrong or right the stories had circulated by other jilted Ex-boyfriends but no one was asking me any questions because they were all told to keep quiet so many added stories were false coupled with the fact that I no longer had any permanent wages their aim was to push me into the sex-industry to become their cash-cow but that was never going to work for them.

This person cost me damaged cars/denied me an incredible lot of Human rights/a first division lottery win in 1996/and before we parted he stole one of my fully registered driving school cars having given it to his Nephew to learn driving skills in paddock’s this kid was not old enough for a license because he was only 10 when I asked where my car was Michael told me someone had smashed into it but there was no second party I had No big dollars to fight him because the Public made sure I could not keep up or get a job in normal circles.

These pictures were taken over an 8 year period that finally ended in 2002.

Entry Tues 2nd October 2018 The Network became so large and so involved in their own perception of crap beliefs there has been some change in attitudes after I wrote this column but the Harassment still continues the false calls made to my private landline using made up numbers generated from a mobile phone during the months of July & August were a staggering amount some of the same continued into September and October/ today is only the 2nd for those who hadn’t noticed when I don’t write on my blog to keep my followers up to date there is at least 1 psychopath who cannot stand to not know what I am doing next he and his false profile had just become deleted from one of my Social pages he uses some of the oldest methods in the book to try to trap me into false situations straight afterwards the landline rang it bothers this person a lot when I never answer the phone —-don’t know why he bothers—-it was game over a long time ago for me.

It is Bathurst this week I always face Harassment during Motor Racing events because things in the Motoring Industry (was) my background also both before and or on my birthday(Valentine’s day) of which I share with the World the annoyance also includes important dates of events that have passed/ some persons have the knowledge of that information.

Entry Friday 12th October 2018 Males make up the majority of people who have caused these staggering amounts of overwhelming years of Sexual Harassment & Stress related incidents, however, there are Females also involved supported by their boyfriends and husbands where they openly found it easy to follow the Abusive behaviour like a pack of sheep following their leader and it is obvious to me they all think it is equally fair to put their actions under the carpet and take No responsibility just the same as my past boyfriends who were happy to enjoy themselves at my cost without blinking an eyelid I believe it is a great shame for people to behave in this way especially without ever having spoken to me and taking on board Litigation completely blown out of proportion to the extreme with the main offenders being the Boyfriends motivated by the Network & the Media my job is to bring to justice all the main offenders and do whatever it takes —— If the WORLD wants the same results TO SLOW DOWN and Educate Men on Stop Abuse to Women INCLUDING Domestic Violence then showing support for me to continue to raise these matters would be a good start WOMEN need to do their bit as well and improve on the way that men look at them as they don’t seem to understand what is causing Domestic Violence.

Entry Monday 22nd October 2018 My site for my Personal story will stay open until many people are charged with 3 decades of Ongoing Sexual Harassment and Litigation and continued Interference of attacks on my computer the latest being the month of October 2018 the Network made up of mostly Australian born citizens who have on many occasions been on the other end of my private phone line I am so sick of the repeated need of continued punishment from these morons and want this case resolved especially taking into consideration that I have nothing to do with the lives of those causing the trouble.

Entry 27th October 2018.

Can’t let this one get away with the damage she has caused perfect timing for the Spring Carnival Horse Racing Event (called herself Irene Penn)? works for Victorian Racing Club (No idea how? as she was banned from every Victorian Race Track) she is responsible for 30 years of Defamation the last contact with her was 30 years ago when in the early 90’s saw a recession she walked to my home seeking rental after having been kicked out of a home in Eden Park where the man claimed she was trying to steal from him I took sympathy given her age she paid me one month rental and then stopped I attempted to remove her to re-let the room because these No Gooders were dragging me down and discovered Federal Police were looking for her after learning she was a common thief she was then locked up for 4 days having stolen other women’s identity snatching their handbags when they got up to dance at the Mooney Valley Hotel —— these people have all used my strength to bounce off focusing on me and in turning their own lives around to avoid taking responsibility for their own criminal activity(extra notes whilst on duty as a Security Officer I did spot her at Caulfield Racetrack working on the gate dressed in VRC clothing in 2006)


All Anyone has to do is take part in Criminal Activity and they are instantly Protected Yes they get access to everything help with Lawyers/Medical you name it whilst a person who has done the right thing all there lives has to fight for these services. (What a mongrel of a Place this is)

5/11/2018 entry Boys and girls you have constantly sent me emails wanting to talk to me where I have deleted them/put them into spam/ and have exited them every time/ if you want me to defend the fact that innocent women are becoming attacked on a frequent basis or for me to give my best advice in helping those more Vulnerable what I ask of you is to bring the nude pictures of myself forward that have circulated now for almost an entire 3 decades used and circulated by the Network of people distributing what we now know as Revenge-Porn I know that so many people have seen these as they were purposely used to bring me down and to make my life come to a full stop so let’s start moving and get the job done IN CREATING A MUCH SAFER PLACE For WOMEN to enjoy instead of feeling so afraid to be their own self.


Too many people to add to this list Police will be kept busy chasing up the main ones who continue to probe into anything I do and try to block me out from all communications/ You only have Yourselves to blame for the damage to a Community that you have caused and my advice to all who have participated is that you need to act wiser and speak out against those who continue to dramatise because they are just full of Bull and are Criminals themselves there is one major predator behind these years of Public Abuse WHO HAS KEPT THIS TRASH going and who is hell-bent on not allowing me to enjoy myself he has an almost airy voice with a background intent just like the predator in the Clint Eastwood film PLAY MISTY for ME he doesn’t show his face only from afar out of my view and continues to try to block all levels of my computer except he hasn’t succeeded/ the one thing that he won’t attempt to do is attack me physically because he hasn’t got the Mental Strength to challenge me but rather would send someone else to do his dirty work —— the rest is history ——- WHAT MAKES THIS psychopath tick is the Love-Hate relationship he has with himself and I am his target I have No contact with this person only the contact he makes with the attacks on my Computer and when he rings my home phone with the view that it’s a wrong number he has dialled/ the attacks on my computer is made from his place of work where he commits these crimes in his company’s time my Telco provider on his shifts he opens my line for some 10 to 12 hours (where I can’t use my Internet or landline then by using a mobile phone to connect out of service numbers and in doing so is able to Hack into other persons Network and then Scamming them I am tired of all the important things I have to detach or remove from my computer so I can protect myself from harm HE IS AN (IT) idiot I am quite insulted by his behaviour (and long to take his job away from him)just like he has done to me in the past he also has friends in Australia post who from time to time have continued to block and not send my mail on to me among other things/ this time last year he was trying to find out who my House Insurance was so he could intentionally course damage but he failed to find any details for this on my computer and that made him ever so mad/before that he sent a female around to my house claiming to do Surveys with the purpose to try to find out more about my house mate they failed that as well there is no wrong doing coming from my home and never was/my question to you the Public do I have to stop these people on my own??? My head is in a good place but you have all pushed my Patience way too far I have never heard of any Person having been Punished and Tormented for some 3 decades without ever having been Spoken to for in this case my side of any questions that in itself is Criminal.My Telco group just happens to be a major sponsor for a Media channel who are keeping their mouths shut now.


My New Years wish is for all those responsible to be caught and dealt with in a court of law where No Mercy will be shown towards those involved for their Menacing behaviour and Public disturbance of Litigation & selfishness against myself I won’t give a damn what their positions are or Family circumstances it’s time you paid the price for your own wrongdoing and bad judgment of me I cannot wait to take your Ugly Faces off my blog never to surface again each and every one of you.


In the months to come charges will range from ——

Aggravated Sexual Harassment ranging from long-term

Sexual Harassment Annoyance and  Assault in a place of work

Theft of a Motor Car and damage to another by 4

Defamatory & Litigating with Intent to Harm

Stalking /Deprivation of Liberty/Human Rights Violations

Computer Cyber Attacks & Phone calls Harassment over 11 years

This is a Historic case lasting 3 decades of continued Sexual Harassment with Intent to Terrorise the Victim and Computer attacks still current in the month of December 2018 in moving through to 2019 with mail also held back and not delivered caused by the same Network working together from the beginning.


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